I’ve been with my boyfriend for three years, we’ve been doing issues type of lengthy distance and eventually determined to get our personal residence. I used to be so so excited, lastly get to see the particular person i like day by day. We each have canines & love canines. So after all we had been excited to deliver each of our pups together with us! His canine has a bizarre concern factor with males, I at all times knew this nevertheless it’s gotten a lot worse than I knew. Actually proper earlier than we moved in an incident occurred on the daycare my boyfriend takes the canine to, lengthy story brief his canine bit somebody. Fortunately this man didn’t wish to take any motion.
quick towards to us transferring in, my dad and mom come to see the place and his canine is barking like loopy. My dad reaches his hand out to the canine and practically will get bit. I’ve been on trip from work, getting issues unpacked/settled and caring for the canines whereas my boyfriend is at work. My sister in legislation and her kids came around right now and I needed to crate his canine up in a bed room as a result of I’m so nervous about what he could do. I attempted to maintain him out of sight however after all my niece wished to go within the room to see him, she put her hand as much as the crate (not fingers in) simply so he might sniff and he snapped on the bars. I’ve needed to stroll him the previous few days, my boyfriend makes use of one thing known as a delicate chief so I take him to a discipline with the bin for the canine waste, a upkeep man pulls up in a truck, will get out to wash the bin and this canine goes loopy, thrashing. Slips his nostril out after which his neck virtually out of the mild chief and is eager to go after the man. I needed to drag him residence by his collar.
I’m having panic assaults after I know I have to take this canine out, I really feel like I can’t breathe. My good friend is meant to go to and see the place tomorrow and i’ve to lock the canine up as a result of I don’t know how he’ll react to her. I’m so upset, burdened and this has actually sucked all the enjoyable and happiness out of the transfer/my break day of labor. My boyfriend says he’s known as a coach to try to repair this which is good and all however I’m telling him how burdened and scared I’m about it and he doesn’t appear to provide a shit that i really feel anxious, scared & burdened in my own residence. I can’t even have guests in my very own place with out having his canine bark the complete time! I requested him why he’s no more anxious about this? He mentioned “i assume I’m simply not actively burdened about it proper now as a result of I’m making an attempt to loosen up after being at work”. Which sounds to me like “I’ve been at work all day, I don’t wish to hear you bitch about this”. I went into our bed room for the night time and I’m simply so indignant and unhappy. He’s loud night breathing away, going to go to work tomorrow and I’ll be residence hoping his canine doesn’t assault somebody whereas I’m holding the leash.
I actually simply don’t know what number of extra days of this I can deal with, I really feel so trapped.
TL;DR My boyfriends canine is aggressive in the direction of males(has lately bit somebody), however I’m additionally simply unsure I can belief him with anybody. We simply moved in to a brand new residence, I’ve been residence caring for each of our canines and am scared to dying every time I’ve to stroll his canine or wish to have guests. Expressed considerations to boyfriend, he didn’t appear to essentially care.