Insecure about my [F27] chest after an offhand remark my fiancé [M30] made : relationships


I’ll attempt to maintain this temporary. Fiancé are doing lengthy distance for the summer season and numerous racy footage have been exchanged between us. He’s all the time stated he loves my boobs, so I principally ship him footage of my chest and whatnot.

Anyway, we have been on the telephone tonight and he was telling me in regards to the bachelor celebration weekend he simply acquired again from. Apparently one of many guys employed topless waitresses to attend and he says “they weren’t nice although, one in every of them had massive saggy boobs”

Then I say, “how massive? Like as massive as mine?”

He should have thought I stated “saggy like mine” (connection wasn’t nice) and he goes “no, they have been saggier than yours”

…okay… that sort of appeared like an insult, however I’m certain he didn’t imply something by it. I say “oh, thanks” admittedly in a sarcastic tone, and he goes “what? Yours aren’t that dangerous”

So mainly went from fiancé loving my boobs and all the time saying I’m good to “not that dangerous” and now I’m upset as a result of it’s an insecurity of mine and I simply want I might flip again time and neglect it occurred as a result of now he can’t take it again and I’m feeling like rubbish.

He has a historical past of being bluntly sincere, however by no means in a approach that made me really feel like this. UGH.

Ought to I let it go? I do know folks say dumb shit generally with out considering it by, nevertheless it sort of felt like he was being sincere…

TL;DR: fiancé stated my boobs “aren’t that dangerous” by way of sag issue


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