What’s True Intimacy | Blogs by Christian Ladies


Lately I attended a worship evening at my pastor Sandi’s residence. As I helped arrange the snacks within the kitchen, I appeared out the window and noticed a stupendous massive yard, full of flowers and fruit bushes. In that yard was an enormous hammock in direction of the again in between two palm bushes.

Y’all, I LOVE hammocks.

When the Lord lastly permits me to personal my own residence, I need an enormous yard, with a backyard and bushes simply so I can string up my massive hammock. I plan to get in it each morning with a cup of Earl Gray tea in my hand and a Bible on my lap.

It’s a small dream, however it’s what I need.

So once I noticed that hammock exterior, unoccupied, simply ready for me to leap in it, I knew that I couldn’t depart my pastor’s home with out sitting in that hammock. Even it was only a minute, I knew I needed to do it.

However, I used to be unsure that it was allowed.

You see the rationale I used to be there was for an evening of worship and fellowship. Wouldn’t it’s delinquent of me to drag away from everybody simply to go sit on my own and revel in mendacity again on that hammock, staring up on the clouds?

I nonetheless needed to get in it.

I discussed this to my wonderful buddy Katie, and he or she checked out me, somewhat shocked and mentioned:

“You DO know whose home you’re in? You understand that might be completely okay, proper?”

Ten minutes later, I used to be in that hammock.

Generally we want a reminder of the place we’re and whose we’re.

It’s usually onerous for me to wrap my thoughts round the truth that God, our father, completely invitations us to be utterly comfy with Him. I imply: He’s God.

He’s omnipotent, all-knowing, and free from imperfections and sin.

Then there’s me, a sinner with all my messiness.

He doesn’t care; He loves me anyway. And He needs to know me, all of me, irrespective of how good or dangerous.

Intimacy is one thing I usually battle with. It’s onerous for me to get near others for worry of being harm by them. There weren’t lots of people I felt comfy with. However, for the previous two years, God has proven me the significance of group and the great thing about intimacy with different believers.

Now, I’ve folks in my life that I can stroll into their properties as if I’m considered one of their youngsters and utterly make myself at residence. God has remodeled my relationship and proven me the great thing about intimacy with others.

So, what’s intimacy, precisely? In line with Merriam, Webster intimacy is:

  • A really shut buddy or confidant: an intimate buddy

My definition of intimacy:

Somebody that you understand effectively; somebody you might be utterly comfy with.

Baby hands inside the father's hand

So what does intimacy with God appear to be?

As I used to be pondering all this, God confirmed me two examples of individuals within the Bible who completely acquired it. They knew Jesus, understood how a lot He liked them and weren’t afraid to be comfy with Him.

Examples of intimacy: John and Mary

First, God confirmed me, John.

John is named the disciple whom Jesus liked. All through his e book, this phrase is repeated six instances. I really like that he refers to himself that method; He knew unquestionably, Jesus liked him, and he wasn’t afraid to say so.

One other factor I really like about John: he really laid on Jesus’s chest.

“Certainly one of his disciples, whom Jesus liked, was reclining at desk at Jesus’ aspect, In order that disciple, leaning again in opposition to Jesus, mentioned to him, “Lord, who’s it?” (John 13:23, 25)

I can barely rely on one hand how many individuals I really feel comfy sufficient to lean on them, not to mention LAY on their chest.

Even crazier to me, John was doing this whereas Jesus was telling the disciples that He could be betrayed by considered one of them. (John 13:18-30)

This was in all probability one of many hardest conversations that Jesus had along with his disciples, but John was there, comfy sufficient to put on Jesus’s chest AND knew that this was completely okay.

Now that’s intimacy.

The second instance God confirmed me was Mary, the girl with the alabaster jar.

 When one of many Pharisees invited Jesus to have dinner with him, he went to the Pharisee’s home and reclined on the desk. A lady in that city who lived a sinful life discovered that Jesus was consuming on the Pharisee’s home, so she got here there with an alabaster jar of fragrance. As she stood behind him at his toes weeping, she started to moist his toes along with her tears. Then she wiped them along with her hair, kissed them, and poured fragrance on them.” (Luke 7:35-38)

There’s a lot right here to unpack, however what stands out to me probably the most is are the next items:

The Pharisee that invited Jesus to dinner didn’t share the identical intimacy with Jesus like the girl who anointed Jesus’s toes. (John 7:44-47)

This girl not solely humbled herself in entrance of others, however she additionally sacrificed one thing of nice worth to indicate Jesus her love for Him. (Matthew 26:6-9)

She additionally acquired up shut and private with Jesus by pouring oil on Him and wiping away her tears on his toes along with her hair. (Luke 7:38) She didn’t care what the others thought, or how she appeared. She knew Jesus, and he or she knew she was liked.

Her instance of intimacy is uncooked and messy, however man, it certain is gorgeous.

God invitations us to share this exact same intimacy with Him.

It doesn’t matter what we’ve finished, we are able to strategy Him and enter His presence with out judgment or worry.

We will relaxation our heads on His lap.

Or sit in His hammock.

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Alexis Newlin, BCW Contributor

Alexis is a 35 12 months outdated lover of Jesus, free leaf tea, curler coasters, writing tales and occurring adventures. Initially from Marietta, GA, Alexis now resides in Fresno, CA. You’ll be able to at all times discover Alexis outside having fun with a stroll in her neighborhood, scoping out the most recent meals truck, hanging out with associates or planning her subsequent journey. Her church, The Revival Heart, and household imply the world to her. They’ve supported her by the lack of her mom and her personal most cancers analysis. Alexis enjoys encourging others by reminding them not to have a look at what they see, however to at all times look to God, who’s working within the unseen.


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