okay so I don’t know find out how to discuss this in a non-awkward manner. I’m a feminine in my late twenties and all the time had a strained relationship with my dad.
He all the time supplied for me and my brother rising up, however he had a mood, would name me terrible names and guilt journey me when it got here to spending cash on me, amongst different issues. He’s actually inconsistent, typically being actually variety and different occasions stand-offish. He interrupts me quite a bit after I’m in a dialog and I’m simply usually irritated by him and I’m not totally positive why at occasions. It additionally makes me really feel responsible when I’m.
I don’t actually like him, however I respect him as a lot as I can as a result of he’s my dad. I want it was totally different however it merely isn’t. He has moments of kindness and particularly in older age he’s getting higher.
What I actually hate although, is that he retains his hand close to his crotch after I discuss to him. Or he sort of “cups” it. I discover it so tasteless and inappropriate however I’ve by no means had the center to say something about it. It makes me so offended, even whereas typing this. He doesn’t appear to pay attention to doing something inappropriate.
I don’t know why it angers me a lot. What ought to I do?
Tl;dr: dad retains his hand close to/on his crotch quite a bit. I hate it and discover it actually exhausting to hide my anger after I communicate to him. Unsure what to do.