I have no idea if I’m overreacting however my SO and I’ve been collectively for greater than two years and his dad and mom don’t have any idea that he’s in a partnership with me. His dad and mom reside states away and my SO and I reside in the exact same state collectively.

I ask him typically why his dad and mom have no idea about me and he says that he doesn’t like sharing his personal life together with his family members. He claims that he’ll inform his dad about us shortly, however “shortly” has been introduced up a number of situations and completely nothing has occurred.

I do know fairly tiny about his dad and mom and so they have met me (for 5 minutes) after we had been buddies. This was six+ years in the past.

He has instructed me that his mother might be judgemental and might say off coloured gadgets. Having mentioned that, his dad is kind of calm, laid again and is kind of shut with my SO. His mother can’t get alongside together with his siblings husband/spouse.

When he’s on the phone together with his dad and mom, they’ll ask him how he’s endeavor and he is not going to even get into the topic about getting in a partnership.

I have no idea what to do or the right way to actually really feel about all of this. What tends to make me actually really feel tremendous unhappy is that my family members is kind of shut with my SO and all of us have a wonderful time collectively. I simply need the exact same consider return. I wish to actually really feel like I’m component of his family members.

I’m uninterested in getting a “secret”.

TLDR: My SO’s dad and mom have no idea about me or about our partnership.