Valentine’s Day celebrates “love” – hearts and flowers and jewelry sort of like.
Twin flame like is so substantially far more.
For us (Jill and Remi) to genuinely like every single other and be collectively the way we are now, we’ve had to go into our darkest deepest emotional basements and purge out our old fears, wounds and beliefs, let go of all attachment (to quite substantially all the things, like the approaches we wanted every single other to “meet our needs” or be unique in any way), jumped more than lots of “impossible” hurdles to be collectively, walked by way of the fires of transformation more than and more than once more, performed numerous hours of healing and clearing, faced our deepest shadow selves (each inside and collectively), opened our hearts of compassion to all the things that is “unlovable” in ourselves and every single other…
We’ve been by way of hundreds of hours of crying, purging by way of rage, feeling abandoned, feeling unfairly treated, judging, blaming, pondering the other guy was the trouble (nope!), stuck in old habits, pondering we had been correct when definitely we had been just holding onto a thing out of fear…
It has not been a “hearts and flowers” sort of journey!
Your twin flame journey has most likely not been filled with a lot of hearts and flowers either. That is since – that is not what you are right here for! You are right here for so substantially far more.
As a twin flame, you are so substantially far more than a “lover” – you are a sacred alchemist.
“Love” on Earth is going by way of a transformation, coming residence to its roots of what it is intended to be, and lastly taking flower on the Earth plane.
You, brave soul, come to Earth with a strategy — the superb concept that you and your twin flame would be a component of this revolution taking place right now, that you would play your component. You knew it wouldn’t be effortless, you knew you would have to give up and sacrifice substantially, you knew you would be going against the grain of what other people taught you to believe, really feel, think and want. But we neglect that is what we are up to, and we yearn for the “hearts and flowers” anyway. We need to have to keep in mind who we are and what we’re definitely up to.
If you believe of the twin flame journey as far more of an epic adventure like the Wizard of Oz, Harry Potter, the Lord of the Rings – rather than the “love” stories we are raised to think in – you will have a substantially greater map of what this journey definitely is and what you can anticipate.
It is a hero’s journey – and if you get started off attempting to put on a princess dress (or the male version of one particular), you are going to figure out quite quickly that is not what is required! Improved take off the satin and place on your adventure gear.
This journey is about so substantially far more than you and your tiny self, your attachments and desires. In truth, the far more you let go of all of that, the far more you obtain. All hero’s journeys are performed for a larger objective, and you and your journey are no unique — you are right here to support transform the planet.
You need to have a hero’s map and a hero’s tools, you need to have to know exactly where you are going and how to meet the challenges along the way. And you need to have to keep in mind your twin flame in all of this — they are on their personal hero’s journey also.
They haven’t shown up on the white horse but to rescue you since they are not supposed to — this is a co-creation exactly where we are each the heroes. In this story, there is no assured “end” — that is up to you, based on the inner perform you do, the possibilities you make and the actions you take. It is your hero’s journey soon after all.
If you are not with your twin now, and are feeling lonely and deprived right now when other people are out there with their hearts and flowers, keep in mind what you came for is so substantially far more than that. Set your eye on a greater prize.
Re-think about right now as a sacred celebration of you and your twin flame as embodiments of the divine whose story is not but created its complete arc. You are nevertheless on the adventure. Fill oneself right now with appreciation for all you have been by way of, what you have endured, what you have discovered, how you have grown and transformed. Appear for the richness in this journey, rather than what you lack. If you appear, you will uncover it.
Take your seat as the divine transformational getting you are. Let go of the old “dream” – it wasn’t definitely your truest dream anyway, it was just what you had been conditioned to think. Take your new “dream” – that of a cosmic epic adventure exactly where you are a hero in a extremely wonderful story, total with heroes, villains, and lots of hardship and difficulty – and also unexpected support, miracles when you least anticipate them, magical experiences that defy belief, and sacred companions for the journey.
Journey on, sacred adventurer! We’ll see you on the path <3.
All our like,
Jill & Remi
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