Sacred Longing Vs. Obsession – Twin Flame Healers


A lot of of us do not recognize the distinction amongst sacred longing and obsession, and this causes such a good deal of discomfort and confusion in the twin flame journey!

Merely place, sacred longing is the divine yearning for what is for us – who and what our soul desires to be, do, expertise.  Obsession takes place when the ego jumps on the sacred longing train – and tries to drive.

Sacred longing is at the heart of each and every twin flame journey, and in truth each and every journey our soul desires to take this lifetime.

Sacred longing is straight from the soul – it is divine.  It lets us know exactly where our soul longs to be, and points us in the path our divine self wishes to go.

Sacred longing is an onboard navigational tool that will give us a quite huge clue about what is in our highest fantastic – it is the soul saying a quite huge YES and producing certain we spend focus to that which we are meant to have, be, or do.  It lights us up inside and tends to make us really feel an inner sense of bliss and excitement.

As twin flames, we have an inbuilt sacred longing for our twin flame, an inextinguishable fire that burns vibrant inside us.  No quantity of “water” — doubt, negativity, other people’s opinions, our personal fears – can place out this fire, no matter how difficult we attempt.

Most of us are not taught how to manage sacred longing with mastery and talent, as a result numerous of us (prior to we know superior) either attempt to push it away, or cling to it with attachment, neither of which performs quite effectively at all.

So numerous twin flames obtaining confused on this point.  There are numerous people today telling us to “let go” of our twin flames, and but numerous twin flames uncover this not possible, and really feel like failures for becoming unable to do this – but on some level it just feels “wrong.” On the other hand, some of us attempt desperately to merge with our twin flames in order to full a thing that is missing in us, to fill hole in us.

The situation right here is the distinction amongst sacred longing, which is of the soul, and obsession, which is of the ego.

Obsession comes in two types: sacred longing + ego/attachment, or tiny self yearning (our ego desires, which usually push us away from our twin flame).

When our sacred longing for our twin turns into obsession, we have attached ego to this higher vibration connection – and we all know how that goes!  We go into clinging, attempting to manage, attempting to “get” a thing from our twin flame (a commitment, or them to “do something” we want them to do, to be various in some way).  The quite predictable reaction from our twin flame is to push away from such power, therefore the “running” we all know so a great deal about.

Or we come to be the “runner” – pushing them away due to the fact we do not know how to manage the connection in a higher vibration way.

This dynamic is constructed in to the twin flame union power for a purpose – our twins are programmed to push us away when we attempt to “get” a thing from them that is primarily based on ego or manage (and vice versa).  it in fact protects you from developing a decrease vibration connection with your twin flame, as a result perpetuating the quite dynamic twin flames are right here to transform.

In the old paradigm of partnership, your companion is supposed to “complete” you, meet your demands, give you what you can’t but give your self.  The difficulty with this, of course, is that you come to be dependent on that individual in order to really feel entire, to really feel loved, to really feel fantastic.  Then when they are not accessible, and when/if they leave, you go into good suffering and are instantly searching for the subsequent individual/issue to fill that hole inside you.  You are not free of charge (and neither is the other individual In this connection, who will have to act a particular way in order for you to really feel ok).  It is a connection primarily based on lack and manage, not freedom and unconditional enjoy.

As we all most likely know by now, twin flames are right here to do a thing various.

We are right here to be in our personal divine sovereign energy, in our personal beingness of unconditional enjoy and divine wisdom – and so are they – then we can merge with our beloved in union at a greater level.  There is no dependence, and not overly independent, but a sacred, dancing interdependence filled with the power of the divine masculine, the divine feminine (what ever gender the twins are, this tends to make no distinction) and the Divine third power (the holy Spirit).

The only issue that can fill that hole is becoming that which you seek and going straight to the supply rather than outdoors your self – to God/Spirit/the Divine Presence.  Not your twin flame.

So what is a twin flame to do?  Initially, to attempt to get rid of sacred longing will not operate – but you will need to point it in the appropriate path.  Direct your sacred longing in 3 techniques:

  • Toward the Divine
  • Toward your sacred life objective/your mission to serve humanity
  • Toward fiercely healing and transforming all obstacles to union, inside you and amongst you and your twin flame

That is it!  Straightforward to say, difficult to do – in truth numerous spiritual teachings have numerous volumes and chapters about approaches to do this.  The ego is a difficult small bugger and has all types of tricks up its sleeve to get this procedure going haywire.  You do not have to let it.

You are a lot more effective than all of the forces that attempt to separate you from your twin, but you will have to come to be a master at applying and path your twin flame power in the correct path(s) rather than letting it run amok and go in the incorrect path.

To your union, with all our enjoy,

Jill &amp Remi

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