We Have to have Much less Mental Well being Awareness & Far more Significant Mental Illness Action – Healthful Thoughts Ministry


On December six, 2017 my loved ones produced a fateful choice to get in touch with 911 and seek assist for my son. He had come to be suicidal and was hurting himself. At the time, he had spiraled into a state of psychosis, one thing our loved ones had under no circumstances seasoned just before. He had decompensated into a false reality of conspiracy theories, voices, and hallucinations. His inner thoughts gradually turned him inside out – his thoughts became his truth and his reality became an illusion. He was convinced that Jesus Christ had returned, and he had been left behind and that at any moment the government was going to begin killing every person unworthy of redemption. My son was involuntarily committed to a hospital by the responding officers for getting a danger to himself and other people.

By December 9, my sons 22 birthday, he was in a jail cell with two self-inflicted black eyes, attempting to hang himself with a sheet to escape this globe and the horror going on in his head. He spent his birthday in a suicide suit in a jail cell beating his head into walls.

I looked at his mugshot, caught in a surreal mix of feelings not understanding at all how this could take place or why? His blank flat eyes with an emotionless stare searching back at me from two bruised eye sockets actually penetrated me to my soul. How could this take place?

Almost everything that could go incorrect for my son, had. My son has been in jail for 9 months. He faces two felony charges. 1st Degree Attempted Murder and Attempted Murder with A Weapon for an alleged incident that occurred in the hospital exactly where he had been placed on an involuntary psychiatric commitment.  His alleged weapon was a comb, a comb that a person on suicidal watch should really under no circumstances have had access also. The weapons charge carries a life sentence if he have been convicted. My son’s life could be ruined, even if he escapes a lengthy prison sentence these kinds of charges will limit his skills to perform, rent an apartment, or function in society for the rest of his life. This tragedy unfolded mainly because my son created a brain illness, a illness that impacts his potential to realize reality. He has been criminalized and ostracized for obtaining its symptoms, which he has no handle more than.

Via a subsequent hospitalization, soon after getting bailed out briefly, my son was officially diagnosed with schizophrenia. A illness that is in my loved ones tree, each on the paternal and maternal branches but I under no circumstances in a million years believed it would show up in my youngster. I guess no one particular does. It is like one particular day your youngster is driving along the roads of life carrying out properly and then schizophrenia slips into the driver’s seat and hijacks all the things. Now I log in weekly and add funds to my son’s commissary account just to retain my son in socks mainly because he wears holes in them by pacing the halls of a felony dorm. He is now housed with murderers, rapists, and other violent offenders. We went from considering about his wedding to hoping he survives his incarceration.

The previous nine months have been relentless. He has remained extremely suicidal for most of this incarceration. Only lately did his medication begin to perform and bring him back to a location exactly where he no longer is actively hurting himself or desiring to die. Medication is crucial to his wellness and we are blessed that he is housed in a facility that enables him that. The mental wellness division of the jail has been extremely in tune with my son’s psychiatric wants and for that I am thankful. I know that we are blessed. This is not often the case in our nation.

This illness stole all the things. It is the criminal – not my son – he is just an unwitting host who is paying the price tag for its presence in his physique.

He is far from alone.

Now mainly because of my son’s sickness and his absolute tragedy in the “mental wellness method,” I have come to be an advocate for these living with severe mental illnesses in America. I am amongst quite a few other parents who know the painful aggravation of obtaining totally nothing at all in location to assist us just retain our little ones protected and healthful. We have to fight the government to get them remedy. No other illnesses warrant this sort of action. If your youngster develops cancer you are referred to specialists, your insurance coverage enterprise can not drop you and there are even multi-billion dollar hospitals devoted to nothing at all else but cancer study for your youngster. If your youngster gets schizophrenia you get an insufficient 72-hour psychiatric hold and you only get that when your loved one particular is attempting to kill themselves or other people.

Why do we have to be so reactive? Why can not the US permit us the advantage of getting proactive in the care for our kids?

It is untreated severe mental illnesses that are far also usually the challenge, and folks will need to begin realizing that. Therapy performs. With constant medication and a assistance method of a psychiatrist or a social worker, these with severe mental illnesses can reside without having concerns. They can handle their symptoms, even if a complete recovery is not an alternative, which however is the case with chronic psychiatric illnesses.

Psychiatric illnesses are just as disabling and destructive to the individual as any other illness. The absolute toll they can take on a individual is astronomical. The caregivers in this nation have no actual alternative to lean on as a typical of care. We are left to fumble in the dark, searching for some shred of light, all the even though hoping our youngster does not kill themselves or harm other folks through a psychosis. Calling 911 usually ends in our youngster getting arrested or in a lot more tragic situations getting killed by the police. The mentally ill are the victims of a extremely broken method that no one particular appears to be in a hurry to repair. These that are sick are paying the price tag, they are getting abused mainly because of our apathy, and they are also ill to even know it.

Correct psychiatric care is so tough to safe mainly because remedy for these that are 22-64 years of age in America has been choked off by the discriminatory and barbaric 53-year-old Institutes of Mental Illness Exclusion in the Medicaid/Medicare reimbursement statutes which will not spend any facility with more than 16 beds to treat a psychiatric illness. This exclusion inevitably closed the extremely hospitals we now so desperately will need to treat our kids. These beds have been replaced by jail cells, as our little ones have now been diverted into the judicial method.

The jails and prisons have come to be the new asylums. As these hospitals closed, these with severe mental illnesses have just been displaced to mental wellness wards inside of jails or “left to die with their rights on”, infested with lice speaking to themselves on street corners, usually getting raped or abused repeatedly just before succumbing to the components just mainly because they are also ill to assess their will need for assist. Typically their loving parents appear on in horror as numerous laws tie their hands from intervening and saving their personal youngster from what can only be described as an unwilful and slow suicide.

I now frequent Facebook groups that showcase lost mentally ill kids who have slipped away in the darkness, usually to be lost forever sucked into a globe of vagrancy, delusions, hallucinations, and abuse at the hands of a extremely cold and unsympathetic society. Their parents desperately searching for any shred of facts that their youngster is alive by way of posts and photos of homeless folks submitted by members across the nation. From time to time a person will locate a missing youngster, usually now grown, dirty and delusional. The reunions are not often joyous, the final one particular I study the son was also ill to don’t forget his mother and he ran away once more shortly soon after.

I am also active in various assistance groups for parents that grieve the completed suicide of a youngster that the method eventually failed. I have buddies who have had kids shot by the police, kids who have jumped to their death from ambulances, kids that have been kept in solitary confinement for years and robbed of speak to with their households the complete time. All this suffering just mainly because they became ill and our nation has no much better answer in location at present to assist them.

It is a entire other globe that you do not know about till your youngster gets sick in this way. And then you are thrown at warp speed into what can only be described as this surreal globe exactly where you scream for assist as loud as you can, but no one particular can hear you. You are screaming for assist that you so desperately will need and deserve but no one comes to rescue you…ever. As Ron Powers book title says so well “No One particular Cares About Crazy People”.  It is just you, and other people like you, attempting to make sense of total insanity. Politicians do not want to touch the predicament, the jail personnel do not know how to modify it, the Emergency Rooms do not have the sources to manage it, and your loved ones just stares at you and tries to realize but they do not definitely know how to assist either.

You are alone in a void exactly where no one particular has an answer, and even worse no one particular even cares to attempt to answer you. They just shuffle you along and want you to cease working with words like “suffer” and “schizophrenia”. They want you to deny your personal discomfort and act like you are ok, that this abuse, neglect, and discrimination is the greatest we as a society can do for our loved ones. That is just not accurate, this is America, we can do much better.

We just can not pretend this is Ok any longer. Our kids are dying out right here for lack of care. They are living behind dumpsters, rotting in solitary confinement, getting killed by police. This is not OK. This is discrimination. There is totally no parity of remedy for these with physical and mental illnesses in the United States. These living with severe mental illnesses like schizophrenia, bipolar and schizoaffective issues deserve the exact same high-quality, compassionate care as everyone else living with any disorder or illness in this nation.

If the government desires to claim they assistance parity they have to abolish that 50+ year IMD Exclusion in Medicaid/Medicare. I can not visualize that would be accepted by any other group of folks. That is the epitome of discrimination primarily based on a diagnosis. Can you visualize if you have been denied remedy due to a diagnosis of AIDS, or diabetes or heart illness? If millions of folks have been excluded from remedy primarily based solely on the diagnosis they have for any other illness there would be riotous noise amongst the masses more than it. But for these with severe mental illness, there is silence.

Mental Well being Awareness has come to be a hot subject as of late. We have a nationwide drive it appears to study a lot more about mental wellness. I applaud that. But I have to say we do not will need a lot more mental wellness awareness we will need severe mental illness action. We will need remedy that is confirmed to perform. We will need a lot more assisted outpatient remedy &amp a lot more funding for study to locate much better a lot more productive remedy possibilities. We will need a lot more extensive assistance for these dealing with severe mental illnesses like schizophrenia, bipolar and schizoaffective issues on each level of their lives. Only taking action will get them off the streets, out of the jails and into safer healthier conditions. Awareness can not do this job. We will need action. Action in the type of a lot more education applications for Crisis Intervention Teams, a lot more assistance, and sources for social workers on the front lines, housing, and neighborhood outreach programs that perform to bring these folks to a larger level of functioning in society.

The recovery model of mental wellness excludes quite a few of the folks most severely impacted by severe mental illnesses. There are people who do will need to be hospitalized for longer periods of time. People who are so severely ill, recovery is not a possibility. In our society, we do not like to face particular truths mainly because they are unpleasant. The truth is that there is a smaller percentage of folks who are deemed untreatable and will will need a substantially higher level of intervention on their behalf by psychiatric and healthcare employees to function. It is substantially much better for them to be cared for in a psychiatric hospital complete-time than to reside in unsafe circumstances either at residence or a lot more most likely on the streets or in jail. The recovery model does not perform for folks who have chronic psychiatric illnesses and it is cruel to attempt to make a person adhere to it when it is an impossibility for them. Asking for recovery for some folks with schizophrenia is like asking a quadriplegic to get up and run a marathon. It is demeaning and absurd.

I appear forward to a future exactly where all of the illnesses are treated proactively rather than reactively. By carrying out so, numerous tragedies and senseless suffering will all be avoided. Is not it time we do the appropriate point and ultimately face this predicament head-on as a united force. We will need to do away with the discriminatory Institutes of Mental Illness Exclusion, get a lot more AOT applications in location and move forward in caring for the millions of folks in the United States who endure in silence. We will need to cease worrying just about awareness and begin taking action.

We can be conscious a ship is sinking, but unless we take action all on board will perish.


If you would like to get involved in altering the United States policies on the remedy of these living with severe mental illnesses like schizophrenia, bipolar or schizoaffective issues I would encourage you to join The National Shattering Silence Coalition (NSSC). We are a coalition of like-minded people who are advocating on behalf of these who are the most severely ill in our nation. If you agree that it is time for action, not just awareness, please join our group! We would like to have you operating with us to destroy the barriers that millions of people face everyday in our nation in obtaining the remedy they deserve and the care and assistance their loved ones wants as they care for a person living with these brain ailments.


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