What Takes place When God Says “No”?


This semester, obtaining moved to a new region, my key prayer has been for neighborhood.

I have been praying this regularly for the previous 12 weeks. Basically, I began praying about this prior to I even left house. I knew this was one thing essential, one thing I required, so I wanted to be ready. Nicely, it is now the finish of the semester, I’m about to take my final final exam, and guess what?

Wouldn’t it be wonderful if, at this point, I stated one thing like, “I have discovered my tribe!!”?

Yeah, it would. But that is not the case.

It has been a rollercoaster, an up-stream swim. I have prayed, and sought possibilities, and “put myself out there”, and I nevertheless really feel like a lone wolf. Positive, I met some cool men and women and enjoyed some very good occasions, but I do not really feel as if I have discovered my village, you know?

It feels that in addressing my request to let me come across my group this semester, God answered, “No.”

I believe we get shocked and disheartened when we face these circumstances since we anticipate God’s really like to translate into us obtaining what ever we want. If we study God’s character, we see that God is postured to give us “yes” (two Corinthians 1:20), when it rewards us and builds up His kingdom.

God desires me to have buddies, does not He? Is not neighborhood a Kingdom characteristic? The answer to each these inquiries is yes. Nonetheless, what we frequently neglect to element is God’s timing. Just since God desires to give me one thing does not imply I’ll get it ideal away.

God’s “no” is just as effective and fulfilling as His “yes”. What occurs when He says “no”? I’m nevertheless understanding, but I’ve realized a couple of factors.

In my existing circumstance, I want buddies. I have been experiencing loneliness and all the other feelings that sprout from that. I’ve been wanting men and women in whom I can confide and with whom I can take pleasure in life. I have been browsing really hard for it, chasing it down. Via the course of action, God has stated to me, “what would occur if you chased me down like that?”

God showed me that He is almost everything for which I had been asking. He revealed to me that He is the filler of all gaps and the provider of all requires. God desires me to have buddies, but He does not want me to place them in a spot only He really should occupy. The Lord desires to present me neighborhood, but He does not want me to get so wrapped up in the present that I dispose of the Giver. The present could by no means replace His presence, but at times I would shed sight of that. That can be a risky predicament.

At times God’s “no” is my protection.

He also assured me that I would not really feel lonely forever, that this was a time of stretching and constructing. This was not that for which I had asked, but it was what He deemed that I required.

You know when your coach or trainer pushes you and you want to cease? At times you yell that your muscle tissues are on fire or that you can not run any longer, that you are as well tired or weak. That is how this semester felt. Even in the fitness center, I do not like men and women pushing me. I really feel like I do a enough job of pushing myself. I know what my targets are and what I have to do to get there and I commit to performing it. With this semester although, I really feel like I by no means even saw this coming. I lost my breath, I took some falls, but I also constructed muscle and stamina.

At times God’s “no” is my strength.

God promised to by no means leave me (Deuteronomy 31:six). Even when I fell, He was so gentle about selecting me up. Even when I didn’t want to get up, he was so patient in speaking to me, holding me, and encouraging me. This semester has certainly been one particular of the hardest, but it has also been one particular in which I have had the most intimate moments with God. He promises me that His plans for me are beyond my imagination (Jeremiah 29:11, Ephesians three:20), so I have to think that if He did not grant my request, He has an even higher request in thoughts to grant for me.

Persons who overquote Jeremiah 29:11 frequently leave out the preceding story. The men and women to whom God professed this had been the exact same ones that He had thrown into exile. It wasn’t even a short-term banishment God told them to go ahead and get settled in the land of exile, obtaining married and expanding households. Additional, He tells them that they will devote at least 70 years in this spot, AND THEN He will get them out of there and restore their fortunes. It is THEN when He tells them about the wonderful plans He has for them. He does not give them what they want ideal then and there. That request is denied. Nonetheless, alternatively, He promises to give them extra than they even asked for later on.

If God is telling me “no” now, I can only anticipate improved factors to come.

At times God’s “no” is my hope.

My circumstance is not but resolved. I will not pretend that I am exactly where I want to be. I do think, on the other hand, that God, via each His “yesses” and “noes”, will take me there.


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Anomaly Jaie (A.J.) manages and writes for StudiedandApproved.com, a weblog at the intersection of the Christian and student lifestyles. She is presently operating toward graduate degrees in Criminal Justice and Public Administration, specializing in juvenile justice. In her cost-free time, she likes to function out, play her guitar, and consume Publix rainbow sprinkle cookies.


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