When We Do not Know What to Do
A single of the hardest lessons that I’ve had to discover personally and pastorally is how to support in regard to the matter of race in our culture. A couple of years ago, 1 of our African-American parishioners stopped me immediately after a service and mentioned, “Pastor, when are we going to pray about Ferguson?”
At the time I didn’t realize Ferguson, I didn’t realize the context. So what he was definitely asking was if I understood what was taking place, what was taking spot. In that moment, as a pastor, I was dealing with a tough situation. I wanted to empathize with my brother, but I didn’t definitely know what to say. And this is exactly where I’ve identified lament to be definitely beneficial.
Lament is a meeting spot for us to collect and say, “Let’s weep with these who weep.”
Lament Is a Spot to Collect
Lament offers folks—on different perspectives of the entire racial issue—a popular meeting spot to meet 1 one more and basically say, “I do not know what to say. I do not know if what I’m saying is even correct. But here’s what I know: I weep with you and I hurt with you. Let’s lament with each other that this challenge exists in our culture, that there’s a misunderstanding involving us.”
Lament presents a language for racial reconciliation that I believe the church could embrace. We’ve observed it be definitely beneficial in our personal context. I’ve identified it to be empowering and liberating. It offers me courage to enter into a quite sensitive and critical subject with a language that ministers grace in a wonderful and considerable way to the physique of Christ.
To these who are definitely hurting, to African-Americans asking yourself, “Do you realize this?” and to people who are from majority culture who are saying, “I do not know what to do,” lament is a meeting spot for us to collect and say, “Let’s weep with these who weep.”