a mixed message … dark thoughts – Brian McLaren


Here’s the Q:

Ok, this is going to be a mixed message.

Brian’s book a generous orthodoxy met me in a time when I was prepared to leave the ministry and genuinely saved my faith. God has utilized yalls ministry to save mine.

My challenge is I really feel like I’m living on an island now. I completely realize y’all can not give pastoral help but I’m hoping you can point me towards some sources for discovering a new neighborhood of believers. I’ve identified myself obtaining some seriously dark thoughts and could seriously use some help.

Thanks for your time

Here’s the R:

Thanks for your note. I realize the dark thoughts. Doubt is far more agonizing and terrifying than quite a few men and women comprehend.

3 recommendations:

1. You possibly need to have a “thought community” at a time like this, simply because pondering (questioning, rethinking, questioning, doubting, exploring) is a social act. Folks who consider outdoors a group’s circle of acceptability are punished, so they need to have to locate a group with a larger circle. One particular of the wonderful gifts of the world wide web is podcasts that are specially developed to aid people in your predicament. Right here are two of my favorites, but there are quite a few far more:

two. You also need to have a group of mates with whom you can meet in actual life. Quite a few people from Evangelical/fundamentalist communities locate some freedom and healing in a United Church of Christ, Episcopal (ECUSA), or Presbyterian (PCUSA) church. This church locator web page may well aid you: https://convergenceus.org/churches
Wild Goose Festival is an additional location exactly where people collect and generate wide open space for each and every other.
Some appear and appear and cannot locate any location that feels like property, so they locate 1 or two mates with whom they can connect in honesty and security. Some have identified my book We Make the Road by Walking a great resource for gathering in a property or about a meal. It delivers a brief reading and conversation inquiries.

three. I really should add that quite a few men and women I know who are passing by way of a period of faith transition have required the aid of a great psychologist or counselor, simply because religious trauma is actual and deep. Please do not hesitate to speak to a skilled. Your GP medical doctor would be a great location to go for a referral. Thousands if not millions of us have been by way of this procedure, and I can inform you: there is a much better location on the other side of the turmoil … and you will get there.


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